This story was orginally posted on August 26, 2013. The irony is that the company has had repeated claims of racial discrimination since. They are involed in one as you read this.A woman contacted Radio Facts who works at the Wild Wings restaurant that asked the black patrons to leave. and asked that we allow her to be anonymous.
She states there are several reasons the group was asked to leave (below) Â Radiofacts.com
You’re only getting one side of story here. I work at the restaurant and your representation of the events is way off base. The group was being loud and obnoxious to both customers and staffers.
They kept complaining about their long wait and were talking about how “whitey” was able to get seated, but they were not. The problem was that they had a large group and insisted on sitting next to each other. We only had one area that could accommodate their large group and the patrons in that area were not done.
So yes, some “whities” were able to be seated before them, but only because they were going to a different area. We also seated non-whites in other areas too… They made this a racial issue before anything.
One of the guests also insulted a deaf white girl because she didn’t respond to one of them telling her to move (she was deaf and didn’t hear them)
They were also all standing in the middle of the walkway, making it difficult for customers to leave. We asked them if they could move over, but they said they can stand wherever they want, and if we wanted them out of the way then we should seat them. The customer that was offended was offended by a particular individual’s constant use of the word “n*gger” When asked to stop, he threw out a long string of racial epithets against one of my co-workers.
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They were being TFN’s.
I was at a sporting event recently with my two kids. We were waiting in line, and a large family was behind us. All of the kids were growing bored and getting impatient and acting up (her kids and mine). However, the mother was swearing and dropping the F-Bomb in every sentence out of her mouth to her kids. After about 10 minutes I turned around and gave her a look and she stopped swearing.
Nevermind the rudeness and inconsideration shown towards those of us around her with our kids… At least she stopped once she realized that her behavior was not appreciated, but if this woman treats her children like this in a public venue, I can only imagine what goes on at home. This is what is wrong with the culture, and unfortunately this is why certain groups can become broad-brushed by stereotypes. I don’t subscribe to these stereotypes because I know that ignorant and non-ignorant people come in all shapes, sizes and colors — but I know that if I want to be treated with respect, then I need to behave respectfully.
If you walk into a restaurant and behave badly & use inappropriate language, then you shouldn’t be surprised or pull the race card when you are asked to leave the establishment–it doesn’t matter what color your skin is. Rude is rude.
Few medical, housing, phones, food… But you’re “oppressed”.
Get real, man.
Lots if folks out there struggling. Quit blaming race.
Interesting that Lamaj says he doesn’t see how it’s possible that an entire group would be loud and disruptive but then says he knows people who if asked to leave would have required police to be called (I’m guessing there would be threats of violence or extremely disruptive behavior). Why can people just not act in a manner unique to themselves and the situation in which they find themselves.
Lamaj seems to believe that all blacks should or do act the same. That they should fit a certain profile.
Common sense should prevail here. There is no way a large, multi-state chain is going to deny service to a large group of people. No way. ESPECIALLY if the group is a group of black folks. I have seen discrimination many times and have spoken up when it’s happened. It happens much more subtly. Like not honoring a website price in the store. Happened in a Walmart in Mississippi. A black guy was looking at a hand-held learning game I had just purchased. I mentioned to him that I had just gotten it for $20 less because of the online price. I saw him in line later and asked if he got it. he hadn’t. He was denied the same price that I had gotten. So, I went over to the service desk and mentioned it to the trashy asst manager and told her there was no reason why he didn’t get the same price that I had. Saw him walking out in the parking lot and asked again what happened. He smiled to me and said yes, he got the game. He knew and I knew what happened. Even though race was never brought up. Point being, it happens.
But in this instance, no freaking way. I’ve seen this type of behavior too many times to not believe the worker. And again, common sense says there is no way they were denied service without it being justified.
If you show up with out a reservation for 25 patrons you are going to wait, perhaps all night .If you are obnoxious you are going to leave.
These people were trying to make an incident. It is becoming common for a certain group to act up. When they are called out on it, they claim racism.
It is both a power struggle and a way for them to make money. They will offer to go away and be quiet for money. If no money arrives, then they go to the media and make up whatever stories they want. The media does not appear to every question it. The media is trying not to be called racist.
This is getting worse. More and more crime. More allegations of racism.. More murders. More robberies. More home invasions.
I worked in a restaurant and know how large groups act when they are not seat quickly. It is the seat me now attitude when a large group comes in a restaurant but some do call ahead to prepare the servers and other staff to get the table ready for their large group. Not just blacks but also whites in large groups venture into restaurants without not giving any prior notice. If a establishment is full at the time, the groups don’t understand that people can’t be made to eat faster or even give up their seats once they are seated. That would be bad policy. Large groups of any race need to contact a restaurants ahead to see if seating for the group is available or perhaps reserve seating before coming in unannounced and complaining of a wait time during a busy service. It is all about manners and respect, today people expect the now attitute and only about me service. Give these servers some credit they work hard for little mone.
Regarding the alleged use of the word “whitey”– These people are in a restaurant, filled with other customers, acting up and being derogatory but not wanting to “jump the shark” yet. Would you expect them to call white folks “crackas” and get in a fight or tossed out immediately, or do you think they might use a less offensive word such as “whitey”?
Please, enlighten us as to what words blacks, under the circumstances, would use to refer to whites?
i hate black people.
I have been in Food and Beverage long enough to know that this indeed has the ring of authenticity. I also know North Charleston very well and know that this type of behavior is not the exception but the norm.Anyone who has ever waited tables or tended bar will tell you that the stereotype is more than well justified. But on another note, fuck BWW anyway and their no-carry corporate policy. I wouldn’t go to one in any event, and not just because niggaz bees likun’ dey chiggin wings.
Typical, lying nigger behavior.
The terms “whitey,” “white privilege” and “cracker” are intensely racist terms that express the hate philosophy promoted by marxist social engineers. Most people who have racist attitudes to European Americans are unaware of the sources of the validation for their racism. Young people are indoctrinated in politically correct anti-male sexism and anti”white” childhood by the heavily marxism-tainted education industry and by the media that obeys the orders of the social engineering think tanks.
You know why they call it Television programming? It is duplicitous. You assume it refers to the “program” or shows they put on. It really refers to programming or training the sheeple. Your mind is like a computer. It can be programmed. You watch TV and assume everybody is like the characters depicted. Sheep then adopt the mannerisms, words used, style of dress, likes and dislikes off their favorite characters, etc.
Imagine media that surrounds you with stories, real or fake, about racism daily. TV shows that portray white people as racist(even though we elected Obama), and sitcom episodes dealing with race. At some point a large portion of people(Sheeple) are going to believe it and make judgements and decisions based on that belief.
I believe right now the media tools of the NWO are trying to stir up a race war by manipulating sheep who have already accepted the programming.
The NWO pits classes, races, nations, and religions against each other. They watch us destroy each other, then move in and take control. Do not be a sheep and do not be manipulated.
Turn off your programming and research before it’s too late.
Leave quickly do not let anyone spit in your food.
Whenever I hear a complaint of racial discrimination these days from a black person or group of black people I automatically assume they are lying just like in this case. Most blacks today go around with a sense of entitlement and will lie like a dog in the sun if you do not bow down and worship them and give them whatever they want.
My son, who s a cop, says that since theTrayvon Martin case, 90% of the blacks he stops start out saying he is ‘profiling’ them. Even the black man caught red-handed beating a black woman – AND the woman, too. Worse, the department backsoff of many of those cases. No one wants to be Zimmermanned. So my son has already fond another job – and three other officers in his department are looking and intervewing. You can’t keep the community safe and you put your life on the line. This is not going to end well.
This is only the beginning of this crap folks. Its only going to get worse. This is what the government and media have been hoping for. Its so sad see blacks letting themselves get talked into using race baiting as a means to taunt white people who aren’t even bothering them. I don’t think it ends well.
Knowledge from working in the restaurant and bar industry for 10+ years:
What’s the difference between a canoe and a black person?
A canoe tips.
I have seen and experienced this type of behavior with blacks innumerable times in my life. When blacks expect something and it doesn’t fall right in line as they demand it is turned into a racial issue. I have no reason to disbelieve this person’s account because I see it happen. I have had it happen to me if there are too many people in my party and a black turning it into a racial issue, absolutely. It also seems when blacks are around the noise volume increases substantially and they are concerned only with receiving their demanded ‘respect’ and no consideration for others.
THE FIRST SECOND! When I first brought up this site my first impression was; ‘Brother’, are they going to get sued or what? Then the words ‘racist’, ‘bigot’ crossed my mind.
THE SECOND SECOND! Then… HELLO! as my mind slaps the inside of my head. This site caters to Negros. (note: will not use ‘Black’ as I find it derogatory.)
Disclosure: I am caucasian, sort of. Color & Politically blind on a ‘Personal’ basis. Racist on a race basis. A Bigot with regards to Democrats, Socialist, Marxist, and anyone subscribing to the Hegelian Dialectic concept. Politically I am a Constitutional Conservative.
I am also a very big fan of Mr. Walter William, phd of economics. Read his newspaper column for years before I discovered he is a Negro. To me he is but a well educated American that makes a lot of sense.
I have a good buddy from my college days who is a Negro, sort of. Also, God Father to this son who has become an Electronics Engineer. Two others that I keep in contact with, for over 40 years, both family men and successful as are their children.
One thing I learned early in life; hang with those smarter than you are and more successful. It sort of rubs off on you. And don’t worry about the color or culture as it will not contaminate you or rub off on you.
Read many of the comments. Most were interesting, providing insight for the state of todays culture.
I provided the disclosure statement so you would know where I am coming from should you see me again.
Blacks don’t use the word “whitey”? Really? Here is a quote that was attributed (by on-line sites) to the Black Panthers leader Samir Shabazz in regards to the George Zimmerman trial outcome:
“This time we’re doing it right… This time we’re not burning down our communities. This time we’re going out to Whitey’s suburbs and burning down HIS community. We’re going to make Whitey feel the pain.”
Who wants loud, obnoxious morons to be around them? Not I.
Of course she’s telling the truth. What a shock. A group of idiots acting like idiots being tossed out of a restaurant. Isn’t that more likely than “We don’t serve your kind”? Uneducated people behave like idiots and unfortunately, black culture promotes stupidity.
SOMEONE from the Afro-American Community please STEP FORWARD and let the entire country of America know WHEN your’r going to WAKE UP to the FACT that they have MINDLESSLY FOLLOWED RACE BAITERS like Jackson & Sharpton and ARE READY TO ADMIT that THEY are EXACTLY as I have called them out as such?? Can you not think for AND NAVIGATE your way through society ON YOUR OWN?? WHY can’t you elevate JUST ONE UPSTANDING TRUE AMERICAN PATRIOT form The Afro-Am Community WHO WILL NOT go to the RACE CARD EVERY TIME things do not happen in your favor??
Would someone WITH INTELLIGENCE from the Afro-Am Community PLEASE help me TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHY you CANNOT CHOOSE JUST ONE PERSON who CAN lead BY EXAMPLE and NOT be such a racially charged HYPOCRITE LIKE Jackson & Sharpton and EVEN Oprah NOW?
A business has the right to refuse service to ANYONE. If I was in business, I would refuse to serve blacks with saggy pants, Muslims, and other varmints.
All because of Obama and his constant black on white efforts-and the media push to divide the races- young black men are beating and killing the “honkey crackers” and every black is claiming their so-called rights and feeling no remorse or conscience in over stating and loudly demanding any and all privilege!
It seems in at LEAST the past 5 years, there has been an escalating black culture of entitlement, disrespect and when all else fails – play the race card.
You are no longer responsible for ANY of your actions? You are not responsible for yourself? Your successes? Your failures? It’s all someone else’s fault right? – and of course, it’s always Whitey. How about making YOURSELF accountable?
Takers vs. The Makers
Did someone cry “wolf” again? #1 waited 2 hours? No food is that good unless it was free and even then not worth it #2 any DRINKING going on while waiting to be seated #3 article did not say what day of the week this was but bring 25 people to ANY RESTAURANT and expect to be seated together without prior arrangements like a RESERVATION is just stupid. #4 6 -to 8 people in a party standing for 2 hours would be loud and obnoxious I can’t imagine 25!
You were refused service because you were obnoxious loud and disrespectful. Deal with it and don’t blame others because you don’t know how to act in public.
Some one said the one individual was a minister?And that means what? He can’t be a jerk See Jessie JackAzz, Foul Al, Flager & Wright
Yep! That pretty much sums up the behavior of a large group of blacks. Entitled and superior. The American black is the most racist sub group in America.
I think it is funny how everyone believed the family as soon as they told their side of the story, but call this girl a liar so quickly. It is funny that the gentleman said that someone started taping the incident once they were being thrown out, but they never showed it. And as far as the WHITEY comment, I work in alot of areas where I have been told “whitey doesnt need to be he after dark” so please dont say that it isnt used. I can understand the frustration of watching people being sat before you…I have been in that situation myself. Please dont insult me and others by saying that your WHOLE GROUP was calm and not getting upset watching others being sat. I think that the restaurant was wrong for letting you sit there for as long as you did, but I think that you had issues that caused them to ask you to leave….none of which where racially motivated!!!!! GET OVER THE RACE THING AND LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!!
Sounds like typical black group behavior to me. It’s constant and obvious. They want the world handed to them on a platter then get pissed when the world doesn’t respond. They should have been arrested for inciting a riot….oh but wait, THEY never do anything wrong, do they? Trash, that’s all, just trash.
95% of people, both black and white, are sick of this kind of stuff. We let the other 5% of people, both black and white, who are racist rule the headlines.
I have worked in the food and beverage industry for the last ten years and unfortunately from my own experience this is usually the case…98.9% of the time…just grin and bare it and hopefully you get more than a 1% tip.
This is an all-too familiar story for anyone who has ever eaten out. Some folks don’t have the mental capacity to ask civilized in any setting. They be gansta.
Great info. It never made sense that a restaurant manager would kick out $500 worth of business for no reason.
I have worked in restaurants and I know from experience that trying to seat a large group without a reservation is very difficult, much less a group of that size! how on earth would 25 people simply expect that they could be accommodated without a reservation? was the restaurant staff supposed to make everyone move for them? it doesnt happen that way!
Yes, people in smaller groups, say 2 or 4 will be seated long before your group of 25 and it has nothing to do with preference or color.
Also I do have to agree with the person who posted that groups that size are sometimes problematic, often demanding, and often throw a fit if the gratuity is included in the check, which is often done with groups that size.
That being said I am so over hearing the false cries of Racism these days!
I don’t blame her for staying anonymous. She’s probably afraid for her life, and probably justifiably so.
For the sake of brevity…. They were just “NbNs”! It’s EXPECTED of them. Non-blacks are ‘pleasantly’ surprised when blacks DON’T act that way. Non-blacks are not at all surprised when blacks DO act that way. The black GROUPTHINK is that of the “racial whine”. It permeates their very existence and rules their lives from cradle to grave. Without the “racial whine” blacks would have no history, no ethnic identity and no future. The black race is the ONLY race on Earth that gets along with no other race on Earth. This group of blacks epitomizes that better than all the words in the world! An entire race of people seemingly with only the one hope to cling to. Racism. They perpetuate it on purpose because without it they would be destitute and have to rely on ‘themselves’. OK I can understand their desperation to make the ‘racial whine’ their legacy.
What would they do on their own WITHOUT it? Become extinct……….. I grieve over the self destructive nature of the “racial whine” and the innocents who might have been, if not indoctrinated into the church of the “racial whine”!
A simple call for a reservation could have avoided all of this. You can’t possibly expect an business to accommodate a group of 25 people that just show up and expect to be seated together. Use some common sense. Always so quick to pull the race card when you get turned away when you act like idiots.
Sounds to me like they were judged on the content of their character! Isn’t that what Dr King was asking for?
Go to Popeye’s!
WELL OF COURSE THEY WERE,…WHO WANTS A BUNCH OF NIGGER ANIMALS AROUND WHILE PEOPLE ARE TRYING TO EAT?
Regardless of the actual incident, I’m finding many of the explanations for belief or disbelief of the employee comical. Is it really so difficult to understand? Really? First, I’m sure this employee is not making a six-figure salary. In fact, she’s probably making just a little more than minimum wage, along with probably being a student or single parent. Have any of you held jobs? Employers are not too keen on employees speaking for the organization, whether in the positive or negative, because the press and society believe that person to be speaking for the organization. A big No No. This usually results in termination of the employee, due to possible vicarious or stict liability. I’m guessing the girl likes her job, but is in need of it much more. In this economy, who can blame her? Someone else was also showing some congnitive ability when they remarked regular “enlightened” citizens would be coming in to confront her, if they knew her identity. Second, when has “What I would do” or “When it happened to me” ever actually worked in identifying the nature of a person’s actions or thought? Really, people? One other person commenting also displayed some rational thought when they said the truth likely lies somehwere in the middle…
I own a restaurant and can tell you that it IS impossible to find enough free tables at one time to accommodate such a large group. As each table vacates you have to reserve it then wait for the next table in that area and so on. This is true in places that don’t take reservations and who don’t have a banquet room or very large areas set aside for large groups.
My restaurant has a large black clientele whom I find most delightful and whose patronage I value. People pick up on vibes and hostile vibes combined with poor service (perceived) make for bad situations. This might have been avoided by calling in and alerting the restaurant to your arrival in a few hours. Even if they don’t take reservations, they may be able to seat earlier customers in such a way as to make several tables available in a shorter period of time.
Regardless, treating the group with respect and dignity and explaining the problem thoroughly might have helped. I often comp dessert if a table is willing to move.
Finally, my view is that no restaurant, not even mine *s*, is worth an hour wait.
If they had been seated, it would most likely have ended with police being called after the fight. There are plenty of videos of this same scenario all over the United States. More customer’s would have been offended and verbally attacked, the wait staff would have to try and put up with the insults, then they would complain about the food and service and try not to pay their bill. Even other African Americans commenting here say they would not want to be seated next to any group like this, white or black. And blacks do use the word “whitey” I have actually heard it myself, it is usually when they speak to, or in front of white people, and not to each other, when inferring race.
fools on here hollerin about Blacks need to worry about inner city crime…what about the whiteboys that go into schools and shoot multitudes of helpless children,movie theaters..hell everywhere…and dnt let me mention the Oklahoma city bombings.other mass murderers..and always cop out with the insanity plea..lil billybob didn’t get the new madden before everybody else so he goes and gets one of Pa’s thirty weapons and shoots everybody..u want some cheese to go with your wine?..the pedophilia that they love to indulge in…get over it…all races have issues but dnt try to paint yours as “liywhite”….because that’s jus a cover for the filth beneath…I agree..there are more than two sides to this story..ms”anonymous”..the Black patrons..and the real truth which is in the middle…that’s how a rational person thinks..u dnt take sides because of your race..u stand fp\or the truth no matter where it is…learn it and live it suckas..
If I had a party of 25 going to a restaurant I would have made reservations!!!!
So sick of this double-standard. As a young white male living in South Florida, I am sick of the entitlement. The black community as a whole needs to wake up and earn the respect that they think that they deserve.
To the person that said that “whitey” is never used, this is not true. I was eating at a local restaurant that gets busy on weekend mornings. They have a “call-ahead” seating policy, and my wife and I have been there many times before.
We arrived to the restaurant and saw numerous people waiting to be seated. A couple of people went before us, and eventually it was down to us and a black couple in their mid 40’s. When the hostess called our name first, and started to walk us back to our seats, I overheard the black gentleman say, “so I guess whitey gets to go first?” and his wife nudged him and said, “Do something Harold!” visibly upset.
What they didn’t know was that we called ahead. We were put on the waiting list before we arrived. Regardless of race, religion, or sexual orientation, anyone could have done the same thing.
I believe the person claiming to work at Wings as I’ve seen exactly this sort of behavior both from large groups. If one person in the large thinks he or she sees a way to put pressure on what is perceived to be the person or people blocking them, he or she will use it. At the top of his or her lungs.
For several decades, “racist” and “bigot” have caused cowardly whites to yield to obnoxious groups of blacks. The race card has been overused and whites (and white hispanics) are getting fed up with it. No more. Call the cops and bring charges as applicable, or put a bullet in whoever is beating on us, just as Zimmerman did.
BTW, all the name changes I know of for blacks since Malcolm X came up with “black” have originated in the black community. Each one gets hung onto until the reputation for crime, violence, irresponsibility, and bigotry attached to the previous name catches up with the new name. Don’t like it? Slap down the jerks. Call them on it. Don’t put up with it, and don’t snicker about “Putting one over on whitey”, because you are only putting one over on yourselves.